Work Hard and Make Better Choicesstring(33) "Work Hard and Make Better Choices"
Working hard is only the first part of success. Making good choices is the second part. It truly takes both to achieve success at whatever you do.
I knew someone who was constantly lamenting her “bad luck”. She wasn’t happy with the various jobs that she had over the years, her personal life was a shambles, she was almost thirty, hadn’t completed college, and constantly had money problems. She often blamed situations or other people for the various predicaments that she was in. However, the glaringly obvious truth was that although she worked fairly hard, she continually made horrible choices. One day she would complain about money and then the next day she’d buy something totally extravagant and completely unnecessary. The next week she’d complain about not being able to get a good job while showing up to work an hour late for personal reasons (which happened regularly).
From time to time she’d talk to me about her issues and I’d point out the choices she made that led to the current problem at hand. Each time she’d pay lip service to acknowledge the connection, but the truth is she never took ownership for the real problem – her choices. She once lamented “why me, why me, I deserve better!” I didn’t offer my opinion on this question, but what I wanted to tell her was that “everyone feels like they ‘deserve better’ at some point in their life – get over it, stop complaining and start really doing something about it. Work hard and make better choices!”
I’ve had the opportunity during my career to work with thousands of people who have experienced varying degrees of success in their lives. Success is not an entitlement. One of the recurring themes I see with these people is that they plan their work and work their plan. That is, they think through their choices, make the best ones they can with the information they have, and then work hard to carry those choices out.
The Secret to My Luck…
Not long ago I was talking to someone I’ve known for years about the growth of my business and some other personal goals I’ve recently met and he said, “Man you’re lucky. It must be nice.”
I responded to him by saying “Yea, I’m lucky, let me tell you the secret to my luck…”
“First, I went to college for ten years. During that time, I started my own business and worked really long hours for two decades. Along the way, I mortgaged my house a couple of times for the business and I wrote five books. You too can have this kind of luck. All you need to do is apply this kind of effort to whatever you do and you can be just as lucky.”
He laughed and said, “Okay, Okay, I get it!!” Did he really get it? I don’t think so, because he hasn’t changed his behavior or started making different choices. If being successful was easy – everyone would have the success they think they deserve.
Working hard is only the first part of success. Making good choices is the second part. It truly takes both to achieve success at whatever you do.