Five Easy Ways You May be Networking Wrong
No matter how much practice you have networking, there are always ways that you can improve. I’ve noticed a few common mistakes with networking that you can easily fix to get the most out of your relationships.
1 – You’re showing up late to a networking event, meeting or one-to-one.
This should be a no-brainer, but so often someone will slip into the back of a meeting five, ten or thirty minutes after it has started. How many times have you gotten a text from someone saying they were running late? Or, worse, not gotten a text at all? Such a minor issue can leave long-lasting negative ramifications in your personal and professional relationship. Avoid it, and leave to your meetings or events aiming to arrive early.
2 – You’re giving the appearance of untrustworthiness.
No matter what anyone says, your outward appearance can and will affect how you are perceived by potential business connections. If your first impression of someone involves their messed up hair, wrinkled pants, and an overall disheveled look, you’re not going to want to do business with them. That being said, would you expect someone to work with you if that was their first impression? Get your act together, iron your shirt, and always be prepared with your name tag and smile.
3 – You’re not making meaningful connections.
A referral-based relationship is more than just, “I do business, you do business, let’s do business together.” It is important to establish real relationships with your connections to encourage a long-lasting, prosperous relationship. If you’re only talking shop, you’re selling yourself short.
4 – You’re only thinking about your own gain.
You simply cannot expect to get anything out of a referral relationship if all you care about is getting something for yourself. Your connections will be more likely to give you business if you show your willingness to help them. Learn to use the law of reciprocity, and see your networking efforts become prosperous.
5 – You’re forgetting the follow up.
Most businesspeople love working with someone who is considerate, and your follow up etiquette is an easy way to show just how considerate you can be. Bonus points, your follow up technique can leave a lasting impression on someone who may have not thought you were memorable. Remember, thoughtfulness always counts in the end.
Are you offending any of these networking commandments? Did I forget any cardinal mistakes? Join the discussion in the comment field below.
2 thoughts on “Five Easy Ways You May be Networking Wrong”
Great tips as always. I actually talked about a follow up system in this blog post earlier in the year including an idea from Dr. Misner. http://adinfinitumcorporate.com/2015/02/24/networking-follow-ups-5-top-tips-for-best-results/
Dr. Misner, I always enjoy reading any ideas you have and this refresher course on my networking skills… I am human and keeping up is important to me.